Tag: couple counseling

WHY I’M NOT AFRAID OF AI

OK, there are things about AI that scare the crap out of me, but I’ve realized I’m not afraid of it taking my job. I know that this is a real danger for millions of people and these are legitimately scary times. Sure, I can see that I am going to have to be more creative and innovative because AI is changing the landscape of my industry in many ways. I’m using AI for administrative and marketing tasks and am amazed by its capabilities.

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The Power of “Turning Toward”

Today, as I reread this article about John and Julie Gottman that ran in the New York Times last year, I reflected on how frequently I talk to couples about the concept of “turning toward.”  The Gottmans have researched intimate relationships for decades and their work has provided us with data that is invaluable for anyone who wants to learn to be a better partner.  One of my main take-aways from their work is that, when it comes to improving our love lives, very small, simple actions can have a huge impact. 

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